19 Nov
Femdom Tips
Author: Single MothersThinking of trying your (back) hand in the world of Femdom? Believe it or not, it takes more than being a bitch and no man-haters are allowed.
A Femdom is a woman of confidence, but a woman of compassion that truly cares about the person she is dominating. The submissive, or slave, may want humiliation, beatings, sissification or various levels of pain, but in the end, that person has allowed the Femdom to be in the position of power and has trusted that woman to take care of them and watch for their health and safety. Remember, the person submitting is, in effect saying “I trust you so much that I am turning off most of the parts of my brain that signal danger and fear. Take care of me.”
So, now that we have the attitude, do we have the look? What does a Femdom look like?
She can be tall, petite, BBW, slender, ethnic, mature and anything in between. In other words, there is no “look”.
The cliche image of the tall, slender, large breasted woman, trussed in a leather corset and garter belt, tottering on five-inch heels not withstanding, confidence is key when dominating. Would you feel comfortable strapping a man to a giant cross and flogging the tender skin of the back of his thighs while dressed in your favourite business suit? Or perhaps having your submissive man locked in a dog cage? While he wears nothing but your panties and begs at your feet, you wear nothing but your favourite silky, sensuous kimono. Is that more your style? Then do it!
If you feel good and are in a safe, sane and consensual mindset, with lots of communication there is no wrong way to dominate!
Find your slave and go for it!
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